Anonymous asked: Favourite kinks (for you, not for fiction)?

A rather opaque answer: usefulness. (And some versions of its corollary, use.) Also contextualization. And a peculiar, somewhat narcissistic thing for recognition.

Everything else is just manifestations of the form.

I apologize, anon: if you’d asked for fiction you’d have gotten a much more salacious list!

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